From Florida and its sunny fun filled days at the beach replaced by cloudy New York skies and snowmen, my life at age 43 has seen transformations such as these and so much more. From a naive innocent individual that was always making others happy to a now somewhat selfish stage that wants to have my own career and life seeking independence yet remaining a great mother. It is said around the age of 40 women experience these emotions. When one puts all their efforts into taking care of others things can take a turn and now we want to be taken care of or just possibly take care of our self and our own future. There are so many challenging adventures I never even imagined I could do. Since losing 35 pounds, attending college and experiencing new adventures like riding ATV’S, I see a new light. I am up for the challenge.

Music is something that helps me get through the day. From the soft sounds of Colbie Colette to the dance moves of Ne-yo. When I exercise, there is nothing like alittle Nickleback or Enrique to get me going. Following a workout is when I am at my creative best, whether it’s writing or art.

Though I look forward to the future adventures, I will always love my quiet time. That peace and tranquility that runs though me when outdoors listening to the birds sing their own song while I shoot photos of flowers, waterfalls, sunsets and wildlife or taking a walk with my big boy JJ (my yellow lab), exploring the river that flows along the mountainside in front of my home is like nothing I can explain. So as the white picket fence comes down and the children continue to grow, the tender loving mother takes a seat to the powerful corporate woman. It’s time I take charge of my life.